Hey, so I was wondering something. On your blog here, you identify as queer. If you don't mind my asking, what do you mean by that? I've heard the term used as meaning everything from gay to transgender to generally non-straight, to name a few. How do you see yourself within all of this? Up to you whether you respond, I won't think anything of a lack of response either, haha. Hope you're well!
I hope you don’t mind my answering this publicly!
Queer is an umbrella term and generally has people confused. Honestly I like that. I believe sexuality is fluid and so is gender. To put any kind of status on my sexuality or gender makes me uncomfortable. My sexuality and gender is my own and if I don’t feel gay, bi, or straight or male or female then queer is perfect. I am Clay. Humyn and sexual. I feel attracted to all genders and sexualities and find people breathtaking. I identify queer because I chose for my existence to remain my own and unlimited.
Touch the part of your body you feel insecure about. Just place your hand on it. Don’t squeeze, pinch it, or poke it. Just touch it. Keep this physical contact for a while and mentally send positivity and love to that part. You spend so much time over analyzing it, accusing it, and shaming it, so take a moment to just love it for what it is, at this very moment in time. It is a part of you and it is beautiful. You are beautiful. -annieelainey
I know who sends me anon hate usually, but I genuinely have no idea who that is, hahaha.
Weirdoes are weird. Honestly I think it’s cowardly. I’ve never received anon stuff. But when I see it on friends sites it’s cowardly. If it needs to be said say it boldly and with conviction in compassion with fire. Not in hate, masked and belittling.